IF YOU HAVE TO BREAK UP….

Recently, friends around me are having some relationship problems. I have friends taking a break from each other; I have friends getting dumped after sleeping with the new date etc. It is sad, but there are so much more than love. Yet, most of the time, people and up feeling sad mostly due to relationship problem. Haha, that includes me too. I comprehend that it is hard to let go and most of the time it is not true that we don’t want to. It’s we can’t bear to. It is just a thin line that differ a long term relationship to a short term relationship. That is how much are you willing to try and make it work. Yet don’t overdo it. Because at the end of the day, the person that will be crying may not be you yourself but other people around you too.

IF YOU HAVE TO BREAK UP….

Here are 5 good suggestions (they are good because I say so… lolx…) that you can try out, I am not 100% sure that they will be as effective but hey, why not just give it a try?

1. Go cry out loud and get sad, then move on. (Don’t hide your feelings! Call a good friend and turn to the person, bottle all emotions inside will only result in breaking down sooner or later. After that, you have your fair share of crying and moaning, get up and move on. Don’t look back till you are ready, by then, there will be a smile on your face, treat the past as sweet memories)

2. Drown yourself with work and activities. (It is a form of escape but hey, it has proof to be as useful. Just by doing so, you will have no time, no energy and no will to think that much and just let time heal those nasty wound. At the same time, you are opening your chances to meet new people. Killing 2 birdies with 1 rock rite?)

3. Don’t get mad or upset, get even. (I am not asking you to kill/hate him/her. I am asking you to do well without him/her or at least use that to motivate yourself to do better. Slim down, look gorgeous and change your wardrobe. It works.)

4. Take a break from relationship. Cupid can wait. Evaluate what went wrong and try not to make the same mistake that you did.

5. Self-convince that it is for the better. Just be friends. (Sometime, friendship lasts longer that relationship. It’s true.)

With that, think it thru before making any decision, whateva the outcome, it's worth it.